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Tuesday, September 27, 2005  

Home Schooling?


A topic Malaya and I often bat around is the coming education of our hypothetical children. The area we live in has very good public schools (there are regular newspaper reports of parents from all over the Bay Area forging residency papers in order to get their children enrolled), and there are some super expensive private schools (the type that call themselves "academies") in the area too, if we wanted to go that route. Nevertheless, Malaya often ponders home schooling them, while enrolling them in martial arts classes and piano classes and youth soccer etc, so they could be socialized by other children that way.

I'm not a big fan of the home schooling concept, in part because as a writer I'll be working at home, but also because I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have the patience to teach my own kids. It's great in concept; you help them with vocabulary words, tutor them some in math, and their innate love of learning keeps them self motivated. The reality is probably that we'd get some lazy, video game obsessed kid who thinks staying at home all the time is a reason to play games all day, go over to his friend's house after school, and who screams and pouts if we try to get them to do their faux-school assignments. Teaching below the college level is an incredibly difficult job, after all.

On the other hand, I remember how miserable and bored I was all through high school, and how sitting in school for 8 hours a day did me virtually no good at all. I wasn't doing drugs or skipping school or being bullied or anything classic like that; I was just bored and uninterested, I wanted to do my own thing, and the endless time wasting bullshit drove me crazy. My high school had 6 periods a day, (or possibly 7, I honestly don't remember) with lunch before the last two. Classes were something like an hour each, and on average the first 5-10 minutes would be taking attendance, reading announcements, general chatter, etc. The last 5 or 10 minutes were no better, as everyone got ready to leave and the teacher hurried to wrap things up, which left maybe 30 or 40 minutes in the middle for anything resembling actual education. And that time was taken up at least three days a week with some busywork bullshit, or catch up time, "Now you're all going to read the chapter you should have read last week, and if you've already read it you can read it again."

I'm not going to go into a whole "my high school experience" blog entry, largely because I don't remember enough to write about and you don't want to read it anyway. You get the idea, though. I was bored and completely disinterested in everything about the high school experience, I wasn't doing the work or getting good grades or learning much of anything, and I wasn't part of any teams or organizations. So why was I there at all? I would have learned far more following independent study courses, and lately I've lately been wondering why I didn't do just that. Talking to Malaya today, she asked why I didn't just get my G.E.D. and quit going to school at 16 or 17, and I really have no idea. It never occurred to me at the time, and neither of my parents ever mentioned it or anything like it. Not that I'm blaming them for my teenaged malaise, but damn I wish I'd done that. Or been entirely home schooled from about 14 on.

It's easy to say in retrospect, and as many fights and disagreements as I got into (Looking back, they were almost stupid and almost all my fault, but try telling that to a know-it-all teenager.) with my parents during the 14-16 years, it probably wouldn't have worked, but who knows; maybe our dynamic would have been very different if I hadn't been pissed off and sleep deprived from the early wake up time required for school, 5 days a week. I don't see how they could have home schooled me really; just with the logistics -- they both lived in San Diego, but had been divorced for years and both worked full time. But I read at a college level by about 8th grade, and though I wasn't doing shit for school work (passive aggressive issues, largely -- I hated school so I didn't care about grades and I wasn't going to do school work if I could help it), if I'd been motivated, I would have. And what better motivation could I have had than the prospect of not having to go to school anymore?

I can't say for sure over the distance of years, but if someone had come to me after 9th or 10th grade and said that if I studied all summer and learned enough history, math, English, etc to pass the G.E.D. test and qualify for my diploma early, I could graduate and never have to go to 11th or 12th grade, I would probably have laughed and gone skateboarding. But if they'd kept asking, and I'd thought seriously about it after a month of utter boredom in September, with the new semester just underway, I might have taken the offer a lot more seriously.

As we were talking about this in the car today, and when I mentioned that I knew I wanted to be a writer by the time I was in 10th or 11th grade, Malaya said, "Just like that Eragon kid!"

I'd forgotten about him until then, so caught up was I in my misery of high school memories, but yeah, just like that. Christopher Paolini is his name, and as his bio says, he was homeschooled by parents who lived way out in the middle of nowhere, and finished high school, via correspondence courses, at the age of 15. He was already working on writing fantasy then, and while I'm not claiming that I could have or would have finished a fantasy novel and had it turned into a huge bestseller by the age of 17, as he did, I'd certainly have done something more with my teen years than I did.

I did graduate high school, just barely, after skipping several classes entirely during my last year or so, but I only went to graduation since my parents and grandparents came to town for it, took off the gown and cap as soon as possible, and immediately vandalized the tassle thingie that I hung from my rear view mirror, like most everyone else did. None of them pulled most of the strings out so they hung way too long and looked mangy, though. I was so down on school after the boring bullshit of high school that I didn't bother with any college applications, despite my 1300 SATs (good scores back when 1600 was the max, rather than 2400 now), and chose to live at home, paying fair market rent and working semi-full time, while trying to become a writer, rather than going to college, which my dad was willing to pay for and pay my rent and everything else while I went.

That lasted a year, at which point I owed dad like $5000 and decided that four years of him paying my bills wouldn't be so bad, especially since I was dying to move out of mom's house. So off I went to community college, and found, to my astonishment, that I really enjoyed it. Classes were just 3 or 4 hours a week, and better yet, you could set up your own schedule however you wanted, with night classes or whatever, and they even had variable lengths! I took most of my classes with 3 hours at a bang, one day a week, and was so happy that way. We got a lot of reading to do, but I didn't have to get up early and go every damn day, I didn't have to yawn through busywork in class, I wasn't surrounded by chattering 16 y/o idiots, etc. I would have loved college when I was 16 or 17, and would have gotten far higher grades than I did in high school, since the work was intellectually challenging, and there wasn't all the soul-killing boredom to suck the life out of me.

So, to belatedly return to the issue of my/our own hypothetical future children, I can't see us doing full home schooling, at least not on our own, though hiring some private tutors seems like a great idea. Simulate college in the home; private tutor in each subject who comes once or twice a week for a few hours each time. The kid doesn't get sick of the subject, there's no stupid busy work, they get individual instruction, etc. I don't know if we'll go that route, but I at least hope we're not wedded to the traditional, "You go to school to learn until you graduate from 12th grade and then you go to college." I certainly would have been happier with anything but that, and really, high school is pretty much complete bullshit. Skipping it won't mean a thing for any kid who isn't trying to get an athletic scholarship to college. Even for the kids who enjoy it, and who largely peak at 18 (setting them up for a steady downhill slide afterwards), virtually no one does anything in high school that still matters when they're 30. Or even 25. Or that couldn't have been done better in other ways. I had some good friends then, and still know one of them, but we hung out after school, not during it, and we could have done that as well or better if I'd been home schooled, or bettr yet, had my G.E.D. already.

College isn't that much different, but you have to get through high school before you can do anything interesting with your life, and you pretty much have to do college as well to support yourself as an adult, and you'll probably need grad school and maybe a PhD in 20 or 25 years, when our future hypothetical kids are getting up there. (If you don't already.) But at least in college you're meeting adults you'll know your whole life, making contacts that will turn into future employment, and taking classes in course areas you want to take them in, and learning useful stuff.

High school is like eating your vegetables (just go with the metaphor and pretend I'm not mostly a vegetarian); you might as well do it as soon as you can, so you can move on to the food you like. And dessert after that. And if you can get it out of the way at 15 or 16, do so. Remind me of this when I'm blogging about how my damn 13 y/o won't do his homework, in 2021? Kthx.
Comments:

Home schooling is a rather odd concept to me. makes me think about religious sects and isolation. but that's probably because it's so uncommon here in sweden..


 

There's a line of thought in economics that high school and college education are flags, basically identifying people who are willing to go through the system, set a goal, and do enough work to accomplish it. I'm not sure how much good job training I got in college, but I got the piece of paper to wave as a flag to future employers.

Home schooling is becoming more of a popular trend, which is understandable given what public education offers to most people. A friend of mine's wife teaches 8th grade science in an Indianapolis public school, and she estimates that 40% of her class are ready for 8th grade when she gets them. That blew my mind when she told me. It's...well let's just say very poor.


 

If you're worried about the experience your kids will have in high school, then there is one good alternative that is available to many SF Bay Area students. Most community colleges in the Bay Area offer something called "middle college", which allows students to go to that community college for their junior and senior years and take high-school-level courses in a college atmosphere. This means that high schoolers who are looking for something different can experience the class structure and freedom that you enjoyed in community college. When I was in high school, I had a lot of friends who hated the regimentation of regular school, and enjoyed middle college much better.


 

We have a college like that here too. They take people 15+ (AFAIK) who want to do high school. Its a much more mature environment, with people in their 20s attending etc. People who dropped out of high school because they thought it was crappy or whatever but later want to come back and finish the qualification.

Also good for troubled teens, victims of abuse, bullying, drugs, pregnancy etc because its a much more supportive environment and much more flexible. You can set 4 day weeks or regular 5 days with late starts (10 am) to suit your circumstances.

I think it tends towards high schools much more than colleges, but its a lot different from a regular high school.


 

The line of thought in high school is that if you can't take this level of bullshit when you don't have any other responsibilities, how are you going to take even MORE bullshit when you have something to lose? I don't like it one bit, but I can definately see the reasoning behind it.

As for college, it's just a farse. The more classes they require you to take, the more money they make. So they add this "general ed" crap to every degree. Hell, I'm taking two different - and required - courses that are teaching me the EXACT same thing. But it's mostly the state's money anyways (yay for scholarships!), so what the hell, right?

What I'd really like to see is less of a "Renaissance Man" education system in which people are force-fed everything but the kitchen sink, and more of a specialized type system, in which people aren't heavily schooled (some general ed, just for exposure) until their late teens, or even early twenties. Then they would have to choose a specialized field to learn, minus all of the extraneous fluff.


 

If you're after specialised schooling, like in the UK. This may not be feasable, but anyway...

At A-Level (16-18 yrs) we choose three or four subjects in any combination we want, and we don't have to know anything about the subjects we don't do.

At university, we choose a single specialised course (Im my case, electronioc engineering) and don't study _anything_ not related to that course.

This is the main reason I went to university in the Uk and nut the USA.


 

Ick! I really should prrofread my comments before posting them...


 

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